We're Done

The thing is, YES, WE'RE DONE!

When reasons to hold on and keep have banished, let go. You don't have to be that unwanted ivy clinging to that old post. You don't have to the spare tire waiting in the garage to be of disposal. You don't have to be that extra pen only to be used when the favorite pen is out of sight. You don't have to be someone's second choice. You don't have to settle as an option. You are worth to be prioritized and valued because you're you, PERIOD.

Do not let someone, a man for that matter, take you for granted. Don't be someone who's just always waiting for the reply that takes days to be sent. Don't be with someone who forget to greet you on your birthday, that's just the absurdest thing ever! If they can't find time to remember you on your special days, imagine if he'll ever think of you on such normal, random days. Don't be with someone who only calls you to ask questions like you're Google, and hangs up on you when he's satisfied with the answer. You're not some info machine that he can consult anytime and then be forgotten thereafter. Do not settle on that kind of mediocrity.

Be with someone who shares his faith with you. There's very little room for argument to be with such a man. Be with someone who totally understands your passion --- someone who sees perfect art in your doodles, someone who sees heart and compassion in your poems. Be with someone who you can bring and introduce to your folks as a stranger, then as a friend, then as your man. Be with someone who will hold your hand when anxiety hits you, or someone who will pat your back when you're facing defeat.

Be with someone who challenges your thoughts and ideas. He doesn't have to be a genius from some known university or someone who has "laude" in his resume. He just has to have the open mind to discuss things, argue about things, compromise above all. He has to be a man of reason and fair judgement, but most importantly a man of impeccable humor. Someone who can burst you into a laughter when you're in the middle of complexity and chaos.

You are worthy of a man who values time spent with you, pictures taken with you, jokes laughed with you, food partaken with you, places visited with you, songs sang with you, beats danced with you, days being with you You are worthy of a man who reciprocates the things you can't say and feelings you can't show without trying to impress you. You are worthy of a man who sees the weakness in you but admires the every strength in you. You have your own set of flaws, and that's make you even more worth keeping and loving.

You are you, and you're far more special  to be with that loser and douche. Don't haste to find the right "him." Be thankful to "Him" for all the things you've got and He will lead you to the perfect "him."

And I say to him, Well, good riddance. Ciao!